Welwood skillfully identifies the fundamental obstacle in relationships and offers a clear, attainable, and transformative solution. Everyone should read this wonderful book.

Harville Hendrix, Ph. D.
author of Getting the Love You Want

This book skillfully and eloquently describes how our deepest longing for love is in fact the key to healing our personal wounds and the woundedness of the world at large. John Welwood's message echoes the Buddha's, showing us how we have direct access to the love and happiness we most long for, as our very essence.

Sharon Salzberg
author of Lovingkindness: The Revolutionary Art of Happiness

Full of practical wisdom and divinely inspired insight. A marvelous guide for any seeker choosing to walk on love's path
bell hooks

bell hooks
author of All About Love

This book takes us on a healing and transformative journey to address the real, underlying cause of our relationship problems. John Welwood is one of the most brilliant and important teachers of our time.

Debbie Ford
author of The Dark Side of the Light Chasers